At a breaking point and forced to provide “inhumane” care for their son, Jonathan’s parents considered the unthinkable: leaving him in hospital

One morning in January, 14-year-old Jonathan Mitkovski refused to get out of bed. His parents wondered, at first, if he was coming down with a virus. It had always been a challenge to figure out what was bothering Jonathan. Born with Down syndrome and diagnosed with autism at age three, he had never spoken. 

Before his sudden decline, Jonathan had been a gentle child who greeted everyone with a smile. He loved roller coasters, the Maple Leafs and McDonald’s french fries. He played drums in a school concert. Whenever his father asked, “Who wants to go outside?” Jonathan would be the first at the door, waiting for someone to tie his shoes. 

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Jole and Katherine Mitkovski have to use a lifting strap to move Jonathon around the house or to the car for his appointments, a two-person job that can be very difficult. 

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Jole and Katherine Mitkovski help Jonathan get into the lifting strap that they bought on Amazon.

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Jole Mitkovski and his son Jonathan. Jole, a teacher, is on a mental health leave from work due to the strain of caring for Jonathan, but the family needs more care than they can provide.

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Jonathan shares a laugh with his mother, Katherine Mitkovski.

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This year, doctors diagnosed Jonathan with Down syndrome regression disorder, a rare and debilitating condition that causes a rapid loss in functioning and behavioural changes.  

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